Beck's Teaching Summary
I teach balance.
Balance: Body - Mind - Spirit
- Body - Capillary System - Matter - Emotion = Beck Balance
- Mind - Neuronal System - Time - Thought = Give Beck Consulting
- Spirit - Fascial System - Space - Belief = Keynotes & Workshops
Our body's 3 holistic systems are like legs of a tripod - each affect the other. We must address all three or it tips over.
Balance the Body
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Balance the Mind
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Balance the Spirit
Learn how to use Service to rejuvenate your soul and inspire your group.
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When I was a young kid...
I grew up in church.
A preacher once taught me that the Toyota corporation (as well as many Asian cultures) teaches its executives to think in terms of decades, centuries, and millennia.
He said, 'Thinking in traditional terms of weeks, months, and years will limit your mindset.'
I lived out in the country. My natural parent had a foster home, with street kids. Metal disorders circled my breakfast table every morning.
Life was tough. Trauma is limiting, so I latched onto this lesson.
It one of few moments that I am glad that I trusted blindly, as it has served my life greatly.
The Decades Stacked
The decision was simple. I would check in with myself every decade to reevaluate who I was and how I wished change my life so I could contribute to humanity.
As a child, I went from feeling worthless to feeling priceless. I was broken, had PTSD, and was suicidal. My dad used service to rewire how I thought about life. Service taught me my value.
- 16 to 26 - USE SERVICE TO REWIRE MY MIND and break patterns of generational dysfunction.
- There is a history of mental disorders and abuse in my family.
- We become like the people we hang around.
- I didn't want that.
When I became a man...
They say a man's brain fully develops by age 26.
At 26-years-old, I reinvented my life to pursue mental transformation. This decision prompted me to relocate to Los Angeles to write this book.
I'm not a mastermind strategic genius. I didn't know how it would all work out, but I believed that I could figure it out (over a decade). In my gut, I knew there was a better way to live and it was worth my life to find it.
This work is currently used to serve the military and those suffering from PTSD.
- 26 to 36 - WRITE ABOUT HOW SERVICE WORKED in repairing my heart and mind.
- I removed The Big Four Limiting Emotions (Rage, Insecurity, Shame, & Anxiety) - and set out to rewire my mind for the 3rd and 4th time. Each experience made my heart feel like it was drifting away from hell & further into heaven.
- My book carries the reader through our family history, up to the moment I gave away everything I owned.
- WARNING: I grew up with over 40 street kids. I don't like the language used in my history, but I am committed to telling the truth.
Suggested for ages 16 & up.
Then I became a husband...
It takes a while to grow up in all the ways a guy needs to mature. Giving everything away was necessary for me to gain the understanding I was seeking, but it came at a cost.
The Cost: my jobs, life I created, and about 2/3 of my Los Angeles Relationships.
At first, I was sad because I am relationally motivated. The goal was to connect to others on a deeper level, not remove people from my life.
As time passed, I realized that the relationships that fell apart were often toxic. Many people were only interested in how my previous life could benefit them. Once I gave up that life, they were no longer interested.
The challenge of purging relationships was the most difficult aspect of this project and the most beneficial, as it opened up my time and heart to other relationships.
Serving others and evaluating how they treated that service became the deciding point for handling every relationship. Everyday life became better, and now it has grown beyond belief.
- 36 to 46 - I distilled my knowledge and learned technology to communicate my findings to the modern world.
- I met my wife when I was fresh off my journey and had nothing to offer but my love and service.
- The principles I teach to organizations to help transition their corporate culture into a cooperative community also works with family.
- Every day, the love of my life tells me that she is the luckiest girl in the world.
- I want that for you and your partner.
Becoming a Dad...
Over the last few years, my wife and I went through IVF, which is the least sexy way to start a family. Now we have three little nuggets frozen in carbonite and are planning on implanting after the pandemic settles a bit more.
Making a lot of money for myself has never been a priority. Other than paying my way, I have always sought adventure and experience.
However, I want to be a good provider for my wife and kids.
Having a family forces a person to confront an essential aspect of the human experience: Legacy.
Legacy is typically 'the can' that gets kicked down the road of time.
Eventually, time runs out. On our deathbed, we have regrets.
When I was 16-years-old, my grandfather (mom's side) and I had our last conversation before he passed. His greatest regret was that he didn't risk enough. He didn't launch out on his own life adventure.
He played it safe.
Consequently, he felt he didn't have much of a Legacy.
I committed to not having this regret.
At this point, I have done everything in life I have ever wanted to do. Mind you, I still add to the list. But the scariest items on my bucket list are all checked off.
I want my legacy to be: he helped others balance the human experience so that it can be enjoyed to the fullest.
- 46 to 56 - I am revealing all of the beliefs, thoughts, and actions that helped me renew my mind and grow a great life.
- This drive is focused on helping both individuals and organizations use service to enhance consciousness and accelerate performance.
- This work grows happiness, teamwork, confidence, and relationships.
